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How to Calm Your Child

dad-and-son-fishingKeep your expression and tone of voice as relaxed as you possibly can, and try these doctor-tested tips.

If Your Child Is 5 or Younger

  • Cover wounds with a cloth as you treat them. If you can, have another adult do the bandaging while you comfort your child.
  • Distract him with books, small toys, bubbles, or stickers.
  • Use age-appropriate words. If your child doesn't know what a hospital is, say it's a place where people help boo-boos feel better.

If Your Child Is Between 6 & 12

  • Involve him in first aid. Even letting him hold the ointment can help him feel more in control.
  • Keep him busy with movies or TV shows, portable electronic games, an iPod with calming music, or stories (true or imagined).
  • Preview it all. Being surprised by a pinch or a sting only creates more anxiety about what's coming next.

Treating a Cut or Scrape

Act Fast: If there's bleeding, first press firmly over the site with a clean cloth until it stops, anywhere from three to 15 minutes. Clean under lukewarm running water and gently pat dry. When a wound is dirty or was caused by an animal scratch, rinse it with water and gently lather with soap. If the skin is broken, apply a thin layer of an over-the-counter antibiotic ointment (like Neosporin or Bacitracin), then cover with a bandage or gauze and adhesive tape. If you can't control the bleeding after several attempts with direct pressure, call your pediatrician or 911, or head to an E.R. If a large piece of skin has been removed, wrap it in a clean, moist cloth and place it in a bag over ice -- a doctor may be able to reattach it. An animal bite that has caused a deep cut should be seen by a doctor. Follow-Up Care: Dab on the anti-biotic ointment and apply a new bandage daily (or twice daily, if it's a large or deep wound) until the cut heals, so your child can't pick at it. If it appears to be forming or draining pus or becomes swollen, tender, or red, see a doctor right away to treat the infection. After the wound heals, slather on SPF 30 until it starts to fade, because newly healed skin can sunburn more easily, making any eventual scar more noticeable.

First Aid for a Burn

Act Fast: Immediately hold under cool running water or apply a cold, wet towel until the pain subsides. Cover any small blisters with a loose bandage or gauze and tape; call a doctor as soon as possible if burns are on the face, hands, or genitals, or if they're larger than 1/4 inch anywhere on the body. If the burn looks deep -- the skin may be white or brown and dry -- go to the E.R. For a burn covering a tenth of the body or more, don't use cold compresses; call 911 and cover the child with a clean sheet or a blanket to prevent hypothermia until help arrives. Follow-Up Care: Don't pop any blisters yourself. If the skin breaks, apply an anti-biotic cream and cover the area with a bandage or gauze and tape until it's healed. Watch for any redness, swelling, tenderness, or discharge -- all signs of infection. Did You Know? Scalds, from hot foods or liquids, are the most common burn injury in children ages 6 months to 2 years.

Treating a Common Nosebleed

Act Fast: Have your child sit upright, but don't tilt him head back. Loosen any tight clothing around him neck. Pinch the lower end of him nose close to the nostrils and have him lean forward while you apply pressure continuously for five to ten minutes. Don't release and check the nose; it could prolong the bleeding. Follow-Up Care: If the nosebleed is the result of a trauma, reduce swelling by holding an ice pack against the bridge of the nose after the bleeding slows down. If it persists after ten minutes or returns later, call your doctor or go to the E.R. to check for a break.

Removing a Small Splinter or Glass

Act Fast: Use soap and water to wash around the splinter. Clean a pair of tweezers with rubbing alcohol and slowly pull the splinter out. Wash the skin again. When a splinter is hard to remove, leave it for a day or so to see whether it comes out on its own. If your child steps on a piece of glass, and it's not a single shard you can easily remove, gently wrap a clean cloth around the area and go to the E.R. Ask your doctor about an X-ray even if you think you've gotten the glass out; scans often find shards that can lead to infection. Follow-Up Care: If the splinter isn't out after a few days or is causing your child pain, turning red, or has pus, see your doctor to have it removed safely.

First Aid for Eye Trauma

Act Fast: When your child has severe pain, constant tearing, light sensitivity, or blurry vision after being poked or hit in the eye, hold a cool, wet cloth over the area and head to the E.R. He may have a scratch on the eye's surface, which is treated with prescription drops or ointment and usually heals within 48 hours. If a chemical has been splashed in his eye, hold the lid open and flush with lukewarm water and call Poison Control (800-222-1222). If calling poison control from a cell phone, make sure the area code is local, or be sure to tell the operator where you're located as your phone number will direct you to a poison control center near the area code. Follow-Up Care: Monitor your child for pain and vision problems in the weeks that follow a poked eye. These could be a sign of traumatic iritis, an inflammation of the colored part of the eye, or a deeper injury.

First Aid for an Insect Bite or Sting

Act Fast: If the insect left a stinger, gently scrape the skin with your fingernail or a credit card to remove it without breaking it. (Using tweezers can squeeze out more venom.) Call 911 if your child has trouble breathing, is coughing, or develops a hoarse voice, hives, or swollen lips or tongue. Follow-Up Care: For itching, hold a cold compress over the area for a minute, or apply calamine lotion or a 1% hydro-cortisone cream or topical antihistamine (if the skin isn't broken or scabbed). Contact your doc if you suspect a tick bite. He may want to test for Lyme and other tick-borne diseases. Did You Know? Bites and stings are the third most common accident seen in the E.R. among kids 4 and under.